I have been crazy busy and a bit MIA, but I would like to share a lovely transformation from another Ryerson grad. This lovely fellow and myself often found ourselves at the same parties. I was so delighted to see the changes he has made and asked him to share some of his experience!
When I graduated university I
was fat. Plain and simple. And the worst part of it was I was ok with
being fat. I loved beer, I loved food and I wasn’t active. I had been
bigger for most of my life but once I got to university things got a lot
worse. My physical activity dropped and my food and alcohol intake
increased drastically. I went from about 235 lbs. in my first year to
about 280 lbs. in my fourth. I wore a size 44 pant and XXL shirts and
sweaters. I noticed my knees and back started to ache and I felt
self-conscious in public and around new people. I was losing confidence
in myself. My wake-up call was my dad going into the hospital for issues
with his heart, which by itself is scary, but my dad was nowhere near
as big as me and was a regular at the gym.
It was then, that I decided that I needed not only to lose weight but
change my lifestyle completely.
I started walking everywhere. I didn’t
use transit unless I absolutely had to. I stopped eating out all the
time and made a pact not to drink during the week. A few months later I
was down 20 pounds. My clothes were hanging off me. My walks felt too
easy so I started jogging. I got discouraged when I could barely jog for
3 blocks so I started jogging at night when there were less people out.
It was a slow progression but after year I was down almost 40 pounds.
I started researching healthy eating and found that there were a lot of
different opinions about diets but one main idea. Put proper portions of
good, natural foods in and cut out the processed junk. It’s something I
still abide by whenever I can, if there is a fresh alternative to
something processed I’m all for it. I discovered I loved spinach. Like
LOVED it. I learned how to make salads about 50 different ways so I
wouldn’t get bored. I tried to cut out sugar wherever I could. I made my
lunches instead of buying them because it gave me greater control over
the choices I made. I learned to broil and grill meats and fish instead
of frying them, it was an adjustment but also how I discovered my love
of cooking! I gave myself cheat days as rewards but found myself making
healthier choices on those days too.
I vowed I would not let myself ever be the “fat guy” again. Over the
last year and a half my goals have changed pretty drastically. I no
longer care about the number on the scale as much as I do about how I
feel.
I’ve been around 185 lbs. for the last 6 months but have packed on
some solid muscle (I have pecs!). With the help of a nutritionist and a
few sessions with a personal trainer my waist has shrunk to a size 33
and I’m a size medium in everything. I still have a little pot belly and
love handles that are taking the longest to get rid of but my butt,
chest, arms and thighs have all lost fat and gained muscle.
The most rewarding thing is knowing I did it the right way. I didn’t
drop all the weight at once because of a fad diet or starving myself, it
was a slow trek and I sacrificed a lot to get here. I fell off the
wagon more than once and have had cheat days turn into a cheat week. But
setting goals and following through with them is what has benefitted me
most. And boy was it worth it!
A little over a year ago I met a girl
who stole my heart. Thank god I had the confidence to ask her out
because I’m going to be marrying her this October! My current goal is to
lose the belly because I want to look like an absolute stud in my tux
when she walks down the aisle! And after that I’ll probably set a new
goal…who knows maybe a half marathon or six pack abs are in my future.
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